Mom Life · Review · Travel

Traveling With Kids to The Netherlands

(This blog outlines our travel experience & references many products we bought, used, and recommend for your own trip. This entire trip was bought and paid for on our dime, as well as the products mentioned. You can find those products highlighted here (Canadian link) (American link), and I may earn a small commission if you choose to shop from my link – this is the sole way I monetize my content and keep my blog alive).


As a family, our number one leisure priority is traveling (and our budgeting reflects this). The world is our oyster, and we want to see as much of it as we can. Unlike many folks who yearn for a child-free vacation (rightfully so, parenting is hard work!), we love bringing our kids with us and experiencing the world through their eyes. We’ve traveled a few times a year since they were babies!

In early/mid-2024, we began planning out vacation options for 2025. We settled on San Diego. While Disneyland is *not* our jam (too crowded, too expensive, too many lines, etc), we still saw so much value in what San Diego could offer. We booked a gorgeous air bnb with a pool and a hot tub in Escondido, booked our rental car, set up direct flights from Calgary to San Diego, bought tickets for Legoland and the San Diego Zoo, and planned a whole day in La Jolla.

Then…November 2024 took place. Yes, we’re Canadian. However, when your country’s largest ally and closest geographic connection elects Mango Mussolini, you begin to have reservations about spending money in that country on leisure. You have major reservations about supporting tourism there, about keeping your children safe there.

So – we canceled it all. Everything. We canceled our flights (refunded to flight credit to be used within one calendar year), canceled the air bnb (full refund), and we forfeited our tickets to Legoland and San Diego Zoo (about $1,000 USD for the four of us). Air travel is a privilege, canceling our plans based on our personal beliefs is a privilege, and being able to forfeit the cost of experiences we had prepaid for is a privilege – I will be the first to admit that. For us, it was necessary.

With only 3-4 months until our intended vacation time frame (decided a year prior based on work schedules), I began to look overseas. We’ve loved our beach vacations to Mexico, Hawaii, Cuba, St. Lucia, Jamaica (read more about how we beach vacation with kids here) but were looking for something different. Our daughters are 10 & 8, and we’ve finally left the stroller/car seat/nap era in our rearview mirror – we’re ready to explore. Continue reading “Traveling With Kids to The Netherlands”

Home and Design · Real Talk · Review

Product Review – Coulee Outdoor

This Spring, Mr Bows and Bentos and I were discussing landscaping ideas for our yard. We knew we wanted more planter boxes, some trees, gravel & paving stones down one side of our house – and he also pitched the idea of a fire pit. He grew up in the country surrounded by space and animals and a relax by the campfire at night was something he was accustomed to. Me? I’m a city girl and admittedly, I wasn’t interested at all.

  • I hate the smell of campfire smoke (which permeates every hair and piece of clothing on your body and means constant laundry on my to-do list)
  • Fire pits can be expensive and take up so much space in your yard (we live in an urban area and our yard isn’t huge by any means)
  • I didn’t want to commit to one spot for a fire pit (a firepit is usually permanent and it is so windy here, how can we know we picked the right spot)?
  • Obtaining and storing firewood is one salty pain in the arse (I don’t even know where to buy firewood, embarrassingly enough).

I suggested potentially looking into a natural gas firepit (you know, once of those Costco ones you can put on your deck?) – my husband told me those are ridiculous and not even real fires so he’d rather not even have one, than have one of those. The logic of a country boy….you know. We agreed to shelve the idea for a bit and think about it while we assessed the budget and considered if we wanted to make this work.

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Real Talk · Review

An Expensive Mistake and a Storybook Ending – Our Exterior Lighting Journey

Beautiful LED exterior lighting done by Gemstone Lights

This is a story about an expensive mistake, the guilt of being crushed by a “first world problem”, the incredible service of a local company, and a storybook ending for me. This is NOT a thinly veiled attempt at getting you to invest in what I did – it’s a cautionary tale and a hopeful lesson so no one else makes the same mistake I did. This blog is exactly what I needed a few years ago and couldn’t find, so while this may be long-winded, I’ve truly written this so anyone else who finds themselves in the position I did is empowered to ask the questions I didn’t and feel informed moving forward.

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Health and Wellness · Review

The REAL Truth – My Laser Hair Removal Experience

Let me just start off this blog post by saying if body hair, buttholes, or reading about getting one’s labia zapped offends you, this is your best opportunity to exit stage left and not read what I am about to share. I’m going to assume you found this blog because you are also interested in getting laser hair removal and in order to make an informed decision, you need to know it ALL – and that’s what I’ve got for you.

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Health and Wellness · Mom Life · Real Talk · Review

Product Review: Só Luxury


If you’ve been here for a hot minute, you’ll know just how much I love Só Luxury products. Not only are they a female owned local small company, but their products legitimately work. Living in the Prairies, the dry air is a sensitive skinned person’s nightmare and Só Luxury is one of the only brands that I can use without reacting to. My daughters also have dry skin and patches of eczema and this is all I use on them too. I thought it would be helpful to share what Só Luxury products we use the most around here, how they work, why I love them, and why you should love them too. Please note all opinions are honest and my own.

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Mental Health · Mom Life · Real Talk · Review

My Experiences with CBD for Sleep and Mood Support

I want to start this blog post off with the most important info of all – a disclaimer – that I am not a doctor, a medical professional, or anyone who holds any higher education in counseling folks on what is best for their health. I always strongly advocate that you fact check anything you read on the internet, and talk to your doctor before taking anything that may impact your health. Do not stop taking prescribed pharmaceutical medication unless under the direct supervision of a medical professional, and do not begin taking any new supplements unless you have ensured with your medical professional that it is safe. This blog post is to offer my anecdotal experience with trialing CBD for sleep and mood support and should not be taken as medical advice. Long story short – be smart. This is *my* research – and I am not a doctor.

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